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Question by : I understand once a father pays support he has access to child. We have no court orders but he is requesting child to sleep over; is it necessary? and I think its already fair that the child is already bonding with her father during the day, why nights?? I would like suggestion which is better? Day Visits, Overnight Stay or 1 Weekend?? and reasons please… Shes 5yo. He wanted an abortion in the start. My daughter tells me she doesnt want to stay there even if i orient her that her dad wants to see her but she doesnt want to. I dont want to encourage if she doesnt want to but how can I tell her dad rather than it coming from me.
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Put it this way, how would *you* feel if your time with your child was limited to daylight hours … weekends or whatever HE thought was proper and “enough” for bonding? And for the record, he’s her dad and she’s 5, it’s your job to encourage her to want to stay there at this point as long as you have no reason to suspect anything is wrong when she goes there.
What is wrong with the father wanting to spend some time with his daughter? He may have had a change of heart once she was born from wanting you to get an abortion. I think its pretty sad when a mother “restricts” the time a father can spent with HIS daughter. Let him have her over the weekends, over night stays, holidays, etc. This will give you more free time for yourself and the bond between a father and daughter is VERY important in the daughters well being.
encourage her to go for a trial and if he sees it is distressing her if he is good dad he will return to daylight arrangement
Your daughter is young and if she is not comfortable withan overnight stay dont force it on her. Encourage a day outing if he wants to, but to promise to bring her home before dark..
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