Am I a normal teenager?
13 March 2010 31 Responses
A Parent asks, I am 15 yrs old and i go to an all girls school. i dont go to parties or anything so i never see any guys, even as friends. atm all my friends have started to go out with guys and such but i dont see the appeal. I dont want to date a lot because boys my age are so immature i was gunn wait until like uni so i can have a real relationship. Am I immature for not dating or very mature for not dating atm?
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You are just you. Whatever you do has to be right for how you feel. When the times comes you’ll know it, you’re pretty smart.
Everyone dates at different times. I went to an all girls school I had my first boyfriend at 15, but my best friend didnt have a boyfriend until she was 19.
u are a normal teenager..
wht wouldnt u be.
and its not wrong with not dating..
its up ot u to decide weather u wanna date now or later..
if u think ur not ready
then its a very smart idea to wait =]
Don’t worry about it, you have plenty of times for dating. Enjoy being young.
you dont have to have a bf coz everyone else does!!!!
your turn will come in time
UR NORMAL……..DW
do whatever you want. fuck anyone who says otherwise. if you dont wanna date then dont. simple, man, simple
actually ur being mature mayb ur not ready to date yet instead of forcing ur self to go out wit someone u mite not really like
I was just like you at your age. I also started to worry, but I didn’t go to a all girl school. I just thought all guys we’re too childish and if I was going to date it was going to be serious. I really didn’t have my first big relationship till I was like 18 and in college.
And I would say your thinking with your head more than your mature.
very mature. even though it may not seem like the best idea at the time, what your doing is a good idea.
As far as you being normal, I really hope not. The one thing that you need to look at is what is best for you at this time. Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing. I will let you in on a not so secret secret, Boy’s will always be immature. When you get older in time you may find a way to over look this aspect or it will become a cute kind of attractive thing. I hope this helps you out. Remember, BE GOOD TO YOU. You are the only one that will.
i was in yr 10(highschool) when i had my 1st crush.I was sh*t scared.i had a lot of guys who were friends i guess as i had 2 brothers,but i was 18 when i had real boyfriend relationship.we were together 3 yrs.So its up to when you want to start dating,and school is important.Some realtionships are meant to be,some are trial and error ,thats life.You:ll be okay.You will meat lots of ppl over these years and some will be there for different stages of your life,others will move on.goodluck..
Of course! Everyone is normal, you can date when you feel ready.
There is notthing wrong with you at all!You are a teen that used to be teens.When i was your age i never new at all about dating although all my friends were dating,while i still played with babie dolls.Parting and all that was just not for me,and i think it was and still is the staffest that way.
your time for dating will came to you when you feel and are ready,you have whole life ahead of you.Concentrate on your studies,that will only better your future.
don’t think u are immature it is a good thing right now you should be focused on everything but boys
First, let me say that I am a high school guidance counselor, so I see issues like this quite frequently. Second, I wouldnt classify your choice to not date as anything but your personal preference.
If you feel that the boys your age are too immature then that is strictly your business and the opinions of others are irrelevant. Live your life as you see fit and don’t worry about what others think about it. As long as you are a law abiding, responsible and decent individual whatever else you do is nobody else’s business.
People mature at different rates.
It would help to socailise with more guys as in the real world its mixed.
Even if just as guy mates. Learn to understand guys. ie yes they are all facinated with boobs and wanting to see girls naked. But it does not mean they dont want girl mates too or that they disrespect girls.
Many may start going out with someone as they are sexy then as spend time get to know them as a specail cuddle friend too.
Likewise you dont have to have sex striagth away but if you like someon progress slowly and at yoru own pace with wahts comfortable.
Also when guys hang out with girls they get to understand them too and that you can go yum yum that rock star is cute too.
Often people end up dating a specail mate.
Also whan a guy is all awkard and sy around you or trying to b touchy or show off may mean he really likes you.
Also girls often date older guys and guys mature a lot slower then girls.
So do whats happy but dont be alone either. realtioships are the most passionate 15-19
also you dont have to drink
1. there is no such thing as normal. 2. Everyone is different. If you feel that the fellas are too young emotionally for you, then your are a pretty smart young lady. Teens today are in too much of a hurry to grow up. Have fun, take your time, study. Chances you find your soulmate at 15 are slim to none. Focus on yourself and not what EVERYONE else is doing. Live YOUR life for you and not anyone else. Take your time and actually grow up and enjoy what you can.
oh! crap you. you just want to receive compliments. geta life!
15 is a lil too young 4 datin. but thats just wat i think i personally think u r bein 4 mature an not followin tha crowd makes u sound open minded an independent
Don’t worry, you’re not being immature. : )
When you date someone, that means you are looking to marry that person. And I’m sure that 15 years is way to young to think about marriage. So you’re doing yourself a good thing by not dating because you’re also saving yourself from alot of trouble. And like you said, you’re going to wait to have a real relationship, that’s how things should be. Good job! ; )
You are perfectly normal. There`s plenty of time for dating. Don`t feel that you have to do what your friends are doing.
i think ur normal but, i realised late that there’s supm good t datin. it prepares u for the real relationship ur desirous of. i’m in my first relationship n i’m 20. i’m lucky i picked someone that’s mature but it took alot t transition into th person that’s fit for supm serious. i guess as long as u keep ur focus u should b ok
it is very respectable and admirable what you are doing. you seem very mature for your age, and you are right about boys your age, they need a little bit longer to mature.
you are your own person, you make your own decisions. and no that doesn’t make immature for not dating. you will know when youre ready to date. don’t rush it, there is no need to. youre young and have your whole life to date and party and what ever else.
It’s all right if you’re not dating. I’m 22 and I’ve never dated. Concentrate on your school work.
You’re your own person, that’s all that matters. You don’t have to justify your needs or behavior to anyone.
Incidentally, the difference in maturity between high school and college can be like night and day.
your not immature…just unpopular
no one can really define normal. I think, you are smart, dont go do things just because everyone else is doing it, wait until you are ready. and trust me you wont regret it, being in a serious relationship that means something, its a great feeling and an amazing experience.
You are just you and you’re normal. I don’t go to parties either, only because i never get invited and all my so called friends just leave me out as my feelings don’t matter to them. But don’t worry you will find your first date soon, everyone does in the end. You’re qiute mature and must be very smart not to go out yet as boy’s your age are to imature to think about you and at that age all they think about is sex and stuff (they’re perverts at that age). I’m the same too so don’t worry
you are just a very normal teenager to me… don’t worry about anything…
good luck
idk…i hae interest in boys ok so boys ur age r immature? depending on ur age try guys th@ r a lil older and idk i think guys bein immature is cute!idk or maybe have u thought about maybe u rnt interested in guys and may like girls?idk i dont want this 2 offend u im just asking idk ur just u so do wut u feel is right!GOOD LUCK!!
your you
Although in my opinion i guess that is a smart idea but i mean i would probably say maybe date or go out because staying in a all girls school might bother you if you see the same gender 24/7 for the next few years you go to the school.
yea anyway so your mature in my opinion but just have fun
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