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Should I let my little sister sleep in my bed???

17 March 2010 20 Responses

A Parent asks, If my little sister(4) gets up in the middle of the night and wants to get into my bed I don’t see a problem with that. If she gets comforted by that I think that there would be no problem but with previous answers on my questions it seems most people do have a problem with it. What do you think??
BTW i’m a guy(16)

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  • Elyseholly said:


    It’s not really appropriate for a 16 year old male to be sleeping with little girls. Think of it this way- do you hear of Michael Jackson in Australia? Well he is 45 (or something like that) and thinks it’s okay to sleep with 16 year old boys in his bed… he gets charged with child molestation all the time… it’s just not right.
    It’s probably more appropriate for her to be with your parents where they BOTH are. Just a thought though :)

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  • elaeblue said:


    You know people are saying that because you are almost a grown man now. Little girls sleeping with grown men sounds really nasty doesnt it? But we know you are her ‘big brother” and she loves you and you love her. Still its better if she sleeps in her own bed.

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  • Al R said:


    Ask those hypocrites if it’s ok if it was the other way around ? I mean if it was the brother who wanted to sleep in his older sister’s bed. I’m sure they wouldn’t have a problem with that, because girls are angels who wouldn’t do nasty things to their little brothers. Only god knows how many sisters molest their little brothers but of course nobody would suspect them because they’re ‘girls’ and girls are angels, right ?

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  • malicedmind said:


    Aww, that’s sweet. She probably feels better sleeping by you because you’re older and you can fight the monsters off :) you’re a truly wonderful guy for being so sweet to your little sister. She’ll remember that when she gets older, and she’ll always associate you with a guardian angel of sorts.

    God bless you, I wish there were more guys as sweet as you are.

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  • Monstrαr [is rαd ツ] said:


    As long as you don’t do anything to her then it’s fine…
    I have a 3 year old nephew and 5 year old niece.

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  • Noah S said:


    i think you should comfort your little sister but dont let her sleep with you she’ll get to attached and almost always have to sleep with you

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  • anoldmick said:


    Gently carry her into your parents’ room and put her in with them.

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  • ***Want to have baby's*** said:


    thats not a good habbit to let your sister to do that because she will do it as she gets older and think that nothings wrong with it and its not right.
    ask her whys she does it and if she says that she is scared get her to hop in bed with your mum.

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  • Abby!! said:


    I agree that it is really sweet!! But…I can’t say that it is appropriate. Good luck!

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  • ♥ Alisha ♥ said:


    That’s really sweet that she trusts you at night. I don’t know if that is really appropiate, but I think that since you are her big brother that it would be ok. But you should stop it soon, you dont want her to be doing it when she is like 9 and you are 21!

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  • helpful said:


    don’t know -let her sleep with her mom and dad. That is really sweet though.

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  • Booky said:


    I dont see any proboem with it now, but she’ll get hooked! I am almost 14 (girl) and I just got my 9 year old sister to “move out.” IT just gets to crowded, so as long as she knows it isn’t a permanent situation, go for it!

    She obviously loves you so trying telling her if she sleeps in her bed all week, you’ll take her for ice cream, or buy candy, something like that, just so she’ll get out of the habit, or tell her only if she is really scared!

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  • MamaBear said:


    Well, how about a compromise? Can you leave a sleeping bag on the floor by your bed so that she can curl up in it if she gets up in the middle of the night? I think it’s sweet that she loves and trusts you so much. Obviously, you would never do anything to harm her, but aside from all the problems people have with her crawling in bed with you, she really DOES need to learn how to deal with her fears on her own in her own bed.

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  • Kerrina said:


    Heya

    I dont see any problem as long as you are always descent and dont have anything laying around your room that might influence her or harm her e.g. condoms ,porn ,spliffs ,drink etc etc.If you love each other and your brother and sister there is absolutly nothing wrong with it.You need to get her out of that habit though.xxx

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  • chino_71_zx said:


    There IS a difference as along as nothing inappropriate is going on and as long as you wear PJs or some sort of clothing to be ie…shorts & tshirt…

    now in general …unrelated older guy and unrelated little girl in bed IS BAD….

    older brother and little sister in bed is little girls security…

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  • DianaRae said:


    My brother and I are only 4 years apart. When I was younger I would go into his room when I had nightmares. Sometimes I would curl up on his bed, almost like an over-sized puppy. Other times I slept on the floor. It’s not a big deal.

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  • shopohollic1234 said:


    that is really sweet of you. maybe people just don’t understand that brother sister bond, and don’t understand that it IS like her sleeping with her parents, or her grandma. if she’s comforted by that, then it’s fine

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  • torit said:


    I’m still opposed.

    She needs to learn to sleep in her room, or take her to your sister’s room. Find out what is scaring her in her room and maybe even switch rooms with her.

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  • Glazy S said:


    Nothing wrong with that at all. You’re a good big brother. Enjoy it while it lasts, Someday she’ll be a teenager and she may hate your guts then.

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  • Claudia said:


    I think that if she is worried than maybe she can sleep in a sleeping bag on your floor. I don’t think it’s bad that she sleep with you but like others say she may get attached to it

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