I am pretty scared about giving birth etc?
13 March 2010 7 Responses
A Parent asks, I am pretty nervous, I mean i have no idea what to expect.
How bad its going to hurt, it is just freaking me out..
I am still confused on the names..
Do you think being a mum comes naturally?
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giving birth just feels like taking a poop haha honestly it does unless you have meds than i dont know what it feels like but dont worrie all the pain is worth it and it dont come naturally you just do it and it works
you sound normal to me. just the fact that you are concerned and hopping you turn out to be a good mom. that alone means you are willing to try. and that is half the battle.
yes it i going to hurt. but you look into the eyes of the little baby and it all disappears. you will have days whee you are lost and have no idea hat is going on. and others will look at you and say you have it all together, even if you feel out of control.
love comes naturally. and as long as you have that, you will figure out the rest.
i’m scared too. this is my first baby and my mom won’t hold back on the horror stories of labor. but i ask others and they said if you get an epidural it’s fine.
i hope that being a mom comes natural. if not i’m in trouble.
Epidural is a must and anything you DO feel, just remember that you seriously will not remember a THING when youre done.
i don’t think when you become a mum you know everything. you are constantly learning new things everyday. but it will come “naturally” as such.
i think it is best to talk to someone who has just recently had a baby. it hurts a lot but the entire time you are running on adrenalin which gets you through.
taking birthing classes will help you to prepare and make sure you have a couple f close people with you throughout the labor if that’s what you want. there are all sorts of techniques people use in labor from massage to hypnotherapy. there is also pain relief drugs.
i think i’m just as scared as you are but when the time come you will be able to do it.
take a tour of the hospital they can give you alot of in-site as to what to expect.. you will want to know ahead of time if you are going to want pain meds and what type don’t wait till your in labor to figure out whats best you should be prepared before hand.. do you want to breast fee of bottle feed you need to let the nurses know so they won’t give the baby a bottle of binky if they give the baby a binky it will make it harder for the baby to take to the breast.. there are ALOT of things you should know before you go into labor so my advice is go to the hospital or take a class but get educated for the best interest of you baby your going to be the person to do whats best for him/her how can you do that if you don’t know yourself??the minute you see your baby you will become a different person most women maternity instincts kick in though there are a few that don’t but it’s rare.. good luck and get educated!! for your baby!!
The best thing I did was go to a birthing class. It calmed my fears a lot.
Does it hurt? Hell yes. BUT you get past it and honestly, once you have your beautiful child in your arms, you just don’t care about the pain anymore.
I think being a mom comes naturally for some for others it takes time and work. Mostly, trust your instincts. Deep down we all know what is best for our selves and our children if we just stop and listen to what that little voice inside us is saying.
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