This may be a turning point for you. No one knows why we experience things, but usually down the road we can at least acknowledge the fact that the things that hurt us the most shape us into more caring, strong and/or empathetic women.

The “best” answer I can give you is “when you are ready.” Realistically speaking; however, your employer is counting on you to do a job, and if you are not there to do it, he or she will have to replace you.

Take some time over the weekend to reflect on why you took the job in the first place. If you don’t need the money, maybe it’s time to take an extended leave of absence to consider if you may need to choose a new career field.

If you do need the money and you feel you can do the job, you will need to go to work on Monday, so find some positive affirmations that you can cling to so you can make it to the brighter days that are sure to come.

My heart is with you, a miscarriage is painful and you will never forget (especially when you must indicate it on medical records and questionnaires). You will make it through this time; just remember to be grateful for something every day.

Take care of yourself, and keep in mind that encouraging others often has a more profound effect on you than the person you sought to encourage.