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23 April 2010 6 Responses

A Parent asks, Ok, this is going to sound awful, but i need some advice. My ex husband and I had sex this past december 3 times. (The third time being on christmas night) The month before I had taken clomid (fertility medicine) After that we split up and I got back with an old boyfriend. I had a period January 15, that seemed pretty normal around 4 or 5 days long as i can recall. I found out in early february that i am pregnant. The doctor guessed me at around 10 and a half weeks right now. The problem with this is that she could already hear the heartbeat with the doppler at the end of 8 weeks. Do you think I could of already been pregnant and had my period for a month and this is my ex’s child?

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  • Mommy said:


    No but get an ultra sound to confirm how far along you are.

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  • lauren said:


    Hmmm, I would think it is more likely that your now-boyfriend is the father if you had a full-on period. Unfortunately, the only way for you to know for sure is a paternity test after the birth. If you and the boyfriend weren’t together when you and the ex hooked up, there shouldn’t be a problem in bringing up a pat test. I feel for you though, tough situation.

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  • Mel said:


    It is quite possible! My grandma had what she thought was her period for 5 months before she realised she was actually pregnant with my mum. I have know a few people to bleed during pregnancy and still carry the baby to term. The only way to know for sure is to have an ultrasound to get your dates and if that doesn’t help you…I’m afraid you will have to do a paternity test once the baby is born. Either way, I wish you the best. Good luck!

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  • japcool said:


    It is likely your boyfriend’s baby. Wait until the baby is born. If the baby looks like him shut up about it. If the baby doesn’t get a hair sample from your boyfriend then take it to a lab for a paternity test. Then only you will know and can decide who to tell what to (if anyone). It will be your choice.

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  • Jessica M said:


    well im 15 weeks pregnant, and they say i concevied in early december, so i say chances are it is your new bf baby. congradulaations , and good luck

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  • naturalcommander said:


    Yes, it is possible.

    Good Luck!

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