Worried about my step sister, HPV virus possibly pregnant? 15.?
A Parent asks, I am worried about my step sister, She is 15..
Her father and my mother have been together on and off since they were 14,
So we’ve known each other since she was born And we are very close.
She told me she slept with a 30 year old because he said he loved her (She has bipolar and “need” issues).
I told her father, Because i thought it was sick and twisted for a 30 year old to take advantage of her like that, In the poor condition that she is in.
Anyways, 5 days later she text me saying “Call me its super urgent!!”
When i called her she said she had these weird bumps that looked like the wart she used to have on her leg all over her “area” and inside.
I was freaking out, and booked her an appointment with my personal Doctor.
She’s refusing to go, She also doesn’t know whether she is pregnant or not.
She has already made the decision to put the baby up for adoption considering her health and age.
But could this HPV virus affect the unborn baby if she is pregnant.
Is this really Genital warts? She says they are not itchy, And I’m not going to look down there to see what they look like.
Ive done a tiny bit of re-search for her, And she said hers look nothing like the ones they describe but small, and like the ones you get on your legs or arms or whatever.
She doesn’t want to tell our parents, because she is ashamed and embarrassed. I’m trying my best to make her go to this appointment on Monday, But i don’t know if she will.
Is there any over the counter stuff in AUSTRALIA i can buy for her?
I’m freaking out because I’m pregnant, and I’m scared if she say.. touched them than touches my arm or something I’m going to get it. But after reading up about it I’ve figured thats not really possible lol.
But still, Does anybody have any answers to this would be of great help.
And how can i persuade a 15 year old to go to the doctors?
(Yes, Ive also posted this in the infectious disease section, But i thought maybe someone here would know to lol.,??)
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It definitely sounds like Genital warts, make her go to a doctor asap
ew that sounds gross !!!!!!!!
It definitely sounds like Genital warts, make her go to a doctor asap
HPV shouldn’t harm an unborn baby, but sometimes they do recommend a c section instead of a natural birth to prevent the baby from coming into contact with the warts. There is no over the counter stuff in Australia, and you shouldn’t use the prescription stuff as it can affect the baby. I wouldn’t worry about getting the virus yourself, its requires more ‘intimate’ contact than you will have with your sis!
Your sister does need all the help and support she can get though, whether or not she is pregnant. Technically what the 30 year old has done is stat rape and your sister needs to be protected from being hurt further. What kind of sad loser preys on a vulnerable teenager?!
Listen to your sister, support her and offer to go to the doctors with her, remind her that the GP won’t tell her parents she is pregnant without her permission.
If she has HPV, then she can pass it to the baby during delivery (is she has an outbreak), They may want to do a C-Section to prevent that. It could be herpes, too, or maybe just a rash. Are they painful lesions? I am not sure as to whether you can buy anything over the counter, I know that genital warts can be frozen off and that there are certain medications that can be taken to prevent herpes outbreaks. Neither disease is curable, just treatable and manageable. You can’t get these diseases any other way but sexual contact.
If she won’t go to the doctor, tell her that seeing the doctor will not change the outcome of whether she is pregnant, and if she is, it’s important for her to get prenatal care that will help her deliver a healthy baby. Any parent would want that for their child, and if she is planning on giving this baby up for adoption based on the reasons you listed, she needs to make sure she is giving her baby the best start in life health-wise, as well. If she does nothing else for her child, she needs to do that. It is the adult, and responsible, thing to do.
Tell her that having certain forms of HPV can lead to cervical cancer (great risk, actually), and that it’s becoming an epidemic-doctors believe that it will be difficult to find girls without the disease, soon. I personally knew several girls who had this disease in college, and they already had cells on their cervix start to mutate to become abnormal-the doctors cut abnormal parts of tissue out of the cervix. Tell her that other STDs, many of which do not display symptoms in women, can cause scar tissue to form in the organs, and she may never be able to have children when she is ready (they would screen these for her if she was pregnant). Tell her that some of these diseases can cause a miscarriage.
At 15, I would go with the “scared straight” method of getting her to the doctors. Fear, embarrassment, and shame do not change the outcome of what’s been done. Now, it’s up to her to handle the situation in the best way, and the best way is to go see a doctor. Stupidity never had a positive outcome.
HPV is VERY common, and if she’s receives treatment it shouldn’t affect her pregnancy (if she is pregnant). I contracted HPV from my husband (he got it before we met, but never had an outbreak so he didn’t know), and I have a healthy 2 year old and I’m pregnant again. I’ve only had one outbreak, which was treated and haven’t had it again.
She should get treatment for it though… it may go away on its own, but it can get worse and it WILL get unsightly after a while. She doesn’t know if the outbreak is on the inside, and she’ll need to get a pap and internal done to make sure her cervix isn’t affected – if it is she can have fertility/pregnancy issues later in life. There is also a link between cervical cancer and HPV, so it’s really not something she wants to let go (scare her with that if nothing else works!)
It may also not even be HPV but the start of herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea and a host of other potentially dangerous STIs… you’re going to have to be brutal and honest with her. Tell her she was old enough to have sex, now she has to be mature enough to get herself tested and treated… it’s the only way.
DO NOT buy any over the counter medicine, since you’re not even 100% sure she has HPV… even so, genital wart creams can’t be bought over the counter (as far as I know – I needed a prescription) and I’m pretty sure they’re not safe during pregnancy. I didn’t respond well to the creams anyway (they burn the hell out of you, lemme tell you it’s not fun… I wanted to climb the walls), and ‘freezing’ them didn’t work well either. In the end, my doctor treated me with ‘vitamin bombs’ (as he called it). I got injected with high doses of vitamins once a week and that cleared up my outbreak. Again, do not try this at home… what my doctor did was slightly dangerous and I was closely monitored. Too much of a good thing (even vitamins) can have far reaching effects on your body.
I got pregnant while I was still being treated, and while I was pregnant it just ‘went away’. I’ve been having normal paps ever since… mind you, the warts never spread to my cervix, but I was lucky.
HPV can not be transferred through normal human contact. It’s a sexually transmitted disease, so don’t even worry about that. You and your baby will be absolutely fine.
HPV shouldn’t harm an unborn baby, but sometimes they do recommend a c section instead of a natural birth to prevent the baby from coming into contact with the warts. There is no over the counter stuff in Australia, and you shouldn’t use the prescription stuff as it can affect the baby. I wouldn’t worry about getting the virus yourself, its requires more ‘intimate’ contact than you will have with your sis!
Your sister does need all the help and support she can get though, whether or not she is pregnant. Technically what the 30 year old has done is stat rape and your sister needs to be protected from being hurt further. What kind of sad loser preys on a vulnerable teenager?!
Listen to your sister, support her and offer to go to the doctors with her, remind her that the GP won’t tell her parents she is pregnant without her permission.
If she has HPV, then she can pass it to the baby during delivery (is she has an outbreak), They may want to do a C-Section to prevent that. It could be herpes, too, or maybe just a rash. Are they painful lesions? I am not sure as to whether you can buy anything over the counter, I know that genital warts can be frozen off and that there are certain medications that can be taken to prevent herpes outbreaks. Neither disease is curable, just treatable and manageable. You can’t get these diseases any other way but sexual contact.
If she won’t go to the doctor, tell her that seeing the doctor will not change the outcome of whether she is pregnant, and if she is, it’s important for her to get prenatal care that will help her deliver a healthy baby. Any parent would want that for their child, and if she is planning on giving this baby up for adoption based on the reasons you listed, she needs to make sure she is giving her baby the best start in life health-wise, as well. If she does nothing else for her child, she needs to do that. It is the adult, and responsible, thing to do.
Tell her that having certain forms of HPV can lead to cervical cancer (great risk, actually), and that it’s becoming an epidemic-doctors believe that it will be difficult to find girls without the disease, soon. I personally knew several girls who had this disease in college, and they already had cells on their cervix start to mutate to become abnormal-the doctors cut abnormal parts of tissue out of the cervix. Tell her that other STDs, many of which do not display symptoms in women, can cause scar tissue to form in the organs, and she may never be able to have children when she is ready (they would screen these for her if she was pregnant). Tell her that some of these diseases can cause a miscarriage.
At 15, I would go with the “scared straight” method of getting her to the doctors. Fear, embarrassment, and shame do not change the outcome of what’s been done. Now, it’s up to her to handle the situation in the best way, and the best way is to go see a doctor. Stupidity never had a positive outcome.
HPV is VERY common, and if she’s receives treatment it shouldn’t affect her pregnancy (if she is pregnant). I contracted HPV from my husband (he got it before we met, but never had an outbreak so he didn’t know), and I have a healthy 2 year old and I’m pregnant again. I’ve only had one outbreak, which was treated and haven’t had it again.
She should get treatment for it though… it may go away on its own, but it can get worse and it WILL get unsightly after a while. She doesn’t know if the outbreak is on the inside, and she’ll need to get a pap and internal done to make sure her cervix isn’t affected – if it is she can have fertility/pregnancy issues later in life. There is also a link between cervical cancer and HPV, so it’s really not something she wants to let go (scare her with that if nothing else works!)
It may also not even be HPV but the start of herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea and a host of other potentially dangerous STIs… you’re going to have to be brutal and honest with her. Tell her she was old enough to have sex, now she has to be mature enough to get herself tested and treated… it’s the only way.
DO NOT buy any over the counter medicine, since you’re not even 100% sure she has HPV… even so, genital wart creams can’t be bought over the counter (as far as I know – I needed a prescription) and I’m pretty sure they’re not safe during pregnancy. I didn’t respond well to the creams anyway (they burn the hell out of you, lemme tell you it’s not fun… I wanted to climb the walls), and ‘freezing’ them didn’t work well either. In the end, my doctor treated me with ‘vitamin bombs’ (as he called it). I got injected with high doses of vitamins once a week and that cleared up my outbreak. Again, do not try this at home… what my doctor did was slightly dangerous and I was closely monitored. Too much of a good thing (even vitamins) can have far reaching effects on your body.
I got pregnant while I was still being treated, and while I was pregnant it just ‘went away’. I’ve been having normal paps ever since… mind you, the warts never spread to my cervix, but I was lucky.
HPV can not be transferred through normal human contact. It’s a sexually transmitted disease, so don’t even worry about that. You and your baby will be absolutely fine.
WTF all “dana <3″ did was copy and paste what everybody else said…
Anyway, you really have to force her to go to the doctors. Tell her this could be fatal.
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