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My Daughter Hates school?

8 March 2010 5 Responses

A Parent asks, I have wrote this question before but i wrote it so terribly nobody could understand so i am putting it in dot form

.my Daughter had a best friend for 4 years

.There family were very trashy and let someone verbly abuse her

.They got drunk and drove her home

. Told my daughter not to say anything to me cause she would not be friends anymore with her

.My daughter sent an email to her friend telling her what happened and repeated what the ex best friend had called her parents wich was an alco.

.she apologised for repeating it. has made it hard for her at school because the mean girl and new step sister have told everyone that she called her parents alcos

. now ppl from every grade boy and girl are nasty to her and she doese not wanto go to school.

.It has been 4 or 5 months now and they are still doing this.

What should i do about it. I am all out of ideas now.

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  • bb_gurl772 said:


    1) Tell your daughter to learn from her mistakes.

    2) Tell your daughter to pay attention to all these names and insults these kids are throwing at her, and when the table turns tell her to use these words back at the other kids.

    3) Tell her to move on, and if she doesn’t tell her she needs to grow up, and her friend wasn’t even worth her time.

    4) Tell her to get back in line, and make a real friend.

    5) If she makes a new friend, tell her to dress trendy and snap at every mean kid. With her new friend, make new friends.

    6) Let her know that in her school life, she has the power over all of these other kids. She can shun them because they’re not important. She needs to get a firm hand on her peers.

    7) Tell her, “Well if you want to grow up working in McDonalds or a nearby gas station, living in a cardboard box at the side of a street, wearing a potato sack just because you feel you need to be depressed over some jacked up friend who never even cared about you, fine. Let it be. But I’m telling you now, if you want to live happy, just forget about them and move on. Stop making everything so hard on yourself. Those other kids are not important, and you are the master of your life. But if you want to make yourself a loser, don’t bring your misery home. You need to wake up and talk back to these kids. They will understand who’s boss, just as long as you don’t do anything stupid that could get you in trouble. But you know that already, don’t you? [her name here], you know, I care about you dearly, and believe it or not, there are three people in your school who have a crush on you, 15 that will die for you, 20 that dearly love you, and 7 that are looking up to you. And that’s a lot of admirers. I know this because I listen to what these kids are saying, and half of that [scientifically proven] is the average amount of people who admire someone. You have a lot on your love list. So now, let the table turn, and bring yourself back up, and move on with yout life. Learn from your mistakes, and remember, pain is weakness leaving your body. Remember what I said when you go to school tommorow, and don’t you ever let those worthless kids get to you again. They’re like flies that just won’t go away, like water in toilets. But there IS something that you can do about it. I promise you. And that friend that you used to have? Forget about her. She’s not worth any of your time. Move on, and remember all those admirers you have. One day, they will step forward to you when you decide to bring yourself up the scale, and before you even know it, you will gather more and more admirers by the minute. Move on.”
    8) Comfort her as best as you can, go do something you both like together, hug her, tell her you love her, and let her know no matter what, you will always love her.

    9) Remember to mention all of the things I told you, and I will guarentee your daughter will get better friends, and once she completes her social goal she will likely face her education life.

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  • Ramin G said:


    first learn to spell their then ull know

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  • Jessy said:


    this is still hard to understand but i wish the best for your child.

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  • jade s said:


    pray about it
    …keep a journal and write down every thing every one says and who said it….put in dates and when it happened…
    show it to the princeble…so he can see what is going on

    good luck and God bless

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  • Donna said:


    Maybe you need to take you daughter out of that school and take her somewhere else. If she is clearly unhappy then her school work will suffer. Friends like that are not worth it.

    Your daughter could have died in an accident with them driving and I don’t think you would have forgiven your self for not knowing what was going on.

    Good luck & remind you daughter she did the right thing from saying something. It may hurt her now but at least she’s still alive to tell.

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