are all relationships like this?
8 May 2010 11 Responses
A Parent asks, i have been with my partner over a year now, he had a very troubled childhood, going through depression and and abusive step-parent. many years later he’s a much happier person but he still has a very short temper. he doent get angry or yell but just get very frustrated when he thinks he is right and i am wrong, and is quick to judge and insult.
iv never loved anyone as much as i have loved him but the stress of all the little mini-arguements that happen every couple of weeks is begginning to cause me to doubt the relationship.
is this normal?
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yeah i think it is. i’m the same way..well not that much anymore and i did have a harsh childhood
It’s very normal.
He needs to get some help or he is going to lose you. I know that there is no suce thing as a perfect relationship. But if your not happy why are you there?
There are far worse situations, though you can overcome them if the trust and love are true. Life is a roller coaster, sometimes you are up … sometimes down. Doubt the relation only if you really feel its impossible. I pray it works. God Bless You !
Thats normal in a marrige.
If he’s man enough he will change for you, but can you wait for that change also ?? same thing with me – minus some details i realised had to change or lose the girl changed my ways just to late, but now she wants to get back with me im over it.
Stress in a relationship… yes absolutely normal. Depression, abusive parents, and very troubled childhoods not so much. These things might be somewhat common, but they are definitely not normal. Your boyfriend needs to get into counseling to deal with all these issues he has been trying to forget for many years. These issues are interfering with your relationship, and they will continue to do so until he gets help.
yeah they are a couple is never perfect if they never fight. fights make a relationship stronger. but if it gets to much i rate you tell him how you feel before it’s to late
yeah i think pretty much everyone goes through something like that. The best thing to do is tell him how you feel and talk to him about the things he does and why he may react the way he does sometimes and really talk about it and try and find out how to make things easier on both of you. Try and figure when/what he starts to act that way about and maybe talk to him about it and see what may have happened for him to be like that and what you both can do to work on making those things happen less and less over time. and if you try everything and it doesn’t work out and you’re not happy…maybe take a break or something. good luck!
yeah im very short tempered myself. It is normal just becareful he doesn’t lash out. don’t push him too far.
Leave him and his emotional baggage…
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